People often ask, "What are the best temperament
combinations for a good marriage?" After many decades
of study, Dr. David Keirsey has found that any two temperaments
can get along if they work hard enough, but there are several
patterns in mating choices that seem to be naturally successful.
One of those pairings is the Artisan-Guardian relationship.
Not only is this the most common pairing, it has also proven
to be very often a stable and productive match. Ronald Reagan
and Nancy Davis Reagan are a well-known example of this
kind of match. The United States, and the world in general,
benefited greatly from this kind of match, for without the
help of Nancy, Ronald Reagan would have never attained the
Presidency of the United States, or contributed to the reduction
of nuclear weapons between the two superpowers and pushing
the Soviet Union to the brink of collapse.
What makes the Artisan-Guardian match successful? One clear
answer is teamwork. Each person uses their talents to add
to the relationship, not subtract. The strengths of one
partner covers the weaknesses of the other. Ronald, a Performer Artisan
was always trying to please people and had a hard time saying
no to requests. Nancy, a
Protector Guardian
fiercely guarded Ronald's time and who was able to get close
to him. She knew that his natural tendency to be nice to
everyone would eventually wear him out if she didn't run
interference. This shows how the Artisan and Guardian temperaments
can be complementary, even in the rough and tumble of life.
When Michael Deaver, Reagan's special assistant and the
keeper of his schedule, was asked what contribution Nancy
Reagan had on the career of Reagan, he said "it was enormous."
Nancy didn't have any influence or interest in political
issues, but she fiercely guarded her Ronny from people
who she felt didn't have Reagan's best interest in mind.
Reagan, like all Performer Artisans, tended to "Always
look on the bright side" [Please
Understand Me II, p.70]. Reagan did not confront those
who worked for him who failed him. Nancy watched out for
her husband when it came to trusting people in doing what
he intended them to do. It was this cautious optimism between
the two that forged a powerful pairing.
"He would have been run ragged," said his son,
Ron Reagan, when asked what would have happened to his father
if he had continued to be "in charge" of his own
schedule before he became the governor of the State of California.
Ron Reagan said his father had difficulty using the word
"No" to people who wanted some of his time. Ronald
Reagan would naturally try to satisfy all comers, no matter
the cost and time needed. This difficulty with saying "no"
is typical of Performer Artisans, because all they want
to do is perform and make people happy. They are the most
generous people of the all temperaments, second only to
the Composer Artisans in kindness.
Michael Deaver said that when he came on board, Nancy left
the schedule book to him. She knew her husband well, and
knew he needed someone around him to make sure that he used
his talents well in the political realm. She knew she wasn't
the right person to do that, but Deaver was and she had
a sense that Deaver had Reagan's best interests in mind.
Normally she stood behind the scenes, as the ever watchful
hen, but if Nancy thought that a person was not serving
her Ronny well, she would try to use her influence to get
rid of that person. Donald Regan's resignation was the most
visible example of Nancy's rare call to action in this regard.
Regan did a brilliant job as Secretary of Treasury in Reagan's
first term, and had taken over as Chief of Staff in the
beginning of Reagan's second term.
Regan, probably a Mastermind Rational, was well-suited
for a cabinet position, but was not suited to serve as Ronald
Reagan's Chief of Staff because he acted as more of an executive
for himself and could not be a good personal secretary for
someone else. He also lacked diplomatic intelligence, subtlety,
and discretion, and didn't know how to smooth the edges
of conflict. Nancy realized this and started waging an inside
campaign against him. Eventually Regan found out that Nancy
was against him, and felt that she was too meddlesome, so
he resigned his position - he knew he couldn't win against
Nancy's protection of Ronald. Nancy Reagan seemed content
when Howard Baker took over as Chief of Staff.
It's important to note that the some of the
same attributes that could get Ronald Reagan in trouble
were some of the same qualities that people loved about
him. His final contribution, his open letter to the American
people to make people aware of Alzheimer's Disease, was
a joint decision of his and Nancy's to make public aware
of the debilitating affliction. He wrote the following letter
to share his circumstance with Alzheimer's: